Kitakotonai.

 

This is pretty self explanatory, but i find it useful to show what i want to say.

Between a conversation between me and Sino, it led me to think that some people sit on different positions on this image.

To explain, since ive been through this cycle, i would say my view sits on staying between strangers and friends. And thus i try to avoid any attempt to really find a girlfriend.

Others may be between friends and lovers, and have the mindset of not giving a damn about whether or not it goes wrong, as long as they know they tried.

I know, as some of you might also notice, that this image is too generalised, and that it never permanently follows this pattern. In my defence, i would argue that this is more of a vicious circle, and some are able to escape it more easily or more sooner than others.

I for one, like to think ive escaped this circle, but something tells me otherwise.